Make Him Make a Move

First things first: How did you come to discover that this guy likes you? Did you hear a rumor? Did his friends tell you? Did he tell you himself? It makes a difference.

Let’s consider scenario A: You know he likes you because of a rumor you heard or a vibe that you’re getting. In this case, patience is key. Imagine you’re luring a kitten down from a tree: no loud noises or sudden movements. Flirt a little and keep a close eye on his reaction. If he responds with a little flirting of his own, up the ante. If you’ve never seen him outside of school before, maybe suggest hanging out with some mutual friends. Take it slow and avoid proclamations of love, but don’t be afraid to hint that you like him. Guys are shier than we give them credit for, and he’ll probably appreciate a little sly encouragement.

Scenario B: He told you he likes you. Don’t be too shy to bring the subject up yourself. He’s already paved the way by admitting his own feelings. If nothing’s happened since, it may just be because he’s not sure where you stand. Don’t be afraid to tell him, or to ask him what’s going on. Just be sure to keep the conversation breezy; the less drama he senses, the more open he’ll be.